Guides
Dating guides
Why dating apps aren’t working for you, in plain words. Your WhatsLeft shows which of these is yours.
Why am I not getting matches?
Not getting matches usually comes down to one step where people drop off. How to find yours, what to fix first, and what isn’t worth changing.
Why people swipe left, and what you can change
Most left swipes happen in seconds, at your first photo. Where people stop on your profile, what you can fix, and what just means “not a match”.
Why your matches don’t reply
Matched, then silence? Why matches go quiet, how to write an opener that’s easy to answer, when to send it, and why one silent match says little about you.
How to choose your first dating profile photo
The best first photo is a recent, clear shot of just you, face visible, in natural light. What helps, what gets in the way, and how to test it.